Not The Final. The Last.

There are several people I know whom I have yet to capture in a truly good photo. I’ve snapped pictures of them in passing, during quick conversations, or as they pondered their life and relationship with the "crazy guy with the camera." Often, I tell myself to wait until the light is better, the background less distracting, or until I'm carrying a wider-angle lens.

But then there are those I will never have the opportunity to photograph again. I waited too long, convincing myself I’d do a better job later—later in the day, tomorrow, or the day after. Now, they’re gone.

So, I’ve adopted a rule: when someone requests, “Take my picture!” I stop, without hesitation, and make the photo. Everyone’s happy. They get the photo they asked for, and I avoid having to explain that I don’t take requests for news photos without a good reason.

I've learned to listen to an inner voice that insists, “Take the picture! Don’t hesitate. Find a way, find it now! Make it great. Make it so the subject is pleased with the result.” This voice reminds me that waiting for perfection can kill good ideas and great photos. Perfection delays the experience and robs me of the adventure of immediate action.

Sometimes, it’s awkward as I struggle to explain my purpose and find an angle that pleases everyone, including their mother. Yet, it’s rare that I don’t come away with a good photo. Accepting that success lies in the action, not just the result, gives me the freedom to explore each subject differently, employing various techniques and styles. Through this experience, I can best tell the story of our relationship and their place within our connected community.

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